Women in the Counties
Whether preserved on Babylonian bricks,
or painted on American bluffs, whether written by the stylus of
Herodotus, or the typewriter of today, history is the record of
the achievements of man, of his conquest of the world. Since
Deborah's wild war cry stung the Jews to victory, but few women
have been instrumental in shaping the destinies of peoples or of
nations. And yet she is the substructure of every world
accomplishment. The toil of her hands, her sacrifices, her
insight, the deep red depths of her heart and the clear eyed
vision of her intellect constitute the welding material that has
given strength and permanency to every establishment of
civilization, whether of the old world or of our own Northeast
Missouri.
Real History around the
Hearth
The real history of a country is made
around the hearthstone where women reign. The written page with
its record of the deeds of men and the rise and fall of
governments is only the result.
The wanderlust is an ineradicable
heritage. When the Aryans swept down out of Asia and flowed up
into Europe, they set in motion vast currents that still move
and sway. They developed instincts that still pervade the blood,
and men and women are ever traveling hither to new countries, to
far horizons, to wide silences, ever going, ever traveling,
seeking the Land of the Heart's Desire. The same tang in the
blood sent adventurous spirits across the great America, and
shortly over a century ago the tide of life paused here on the
edge of this wonderland, with silent mysteries brooding along
the shores of its wide and shining river, which came from they
knew not where and went on toward the sea, slowly moving,
majestic. Into this land of mystery man came like King Arthur of
old, to let in the light. Nor did he come alone. But hand in
hand with his mate, the woman. And who shall say which was the
stronger of the two? Back of them many days' journey they had
left friends, home and comparative comfort. Here on the bosom of
the mighty river their souls were charged with the awe of vast
potentialities. Under a sky of brilliant blue, a slow-moving,
molten-yellow stream moved sluggishly away between caressing low
lying shores. Stretches of low lands, miles of crowned bluffs.
Pleasant valleys, the songs of birds, alluring, beckoning, but
everywhere mystery, mystery! What Indians lie in wait under that
dense foliage! What wild beasts lurk in those fair valleys! What
pestilences hang along that sluggish stream! They were heroic,
those pioneer women. What wonder their descendants walk like
free women, with head erect, squared shoulders, meeting the
issues of life with courage, with serene eyes.
In the Silences of the
Forests
"Thales remained motionless four years.
He founded philosophy." Succeeding the first valorous onslaught
on the primitiveness of Northeast Missouri, passed a long period
of pioneer years, apparently consecutive duplicates. The women
spun and wove and cut, Clotho, Atropos, and Lychesis, weaving a
wonderful cloth of character, an even, beautiful fabric for
their daughters and granddaughters for interminable generations.
While the good pioneer women brewed like sybils and wove like
the Fates, great dynamic forces were silently at work and
suddenly it seemed the light was shining. In less than three
generations life swung the limit, from pioneer days to the crest
of civilization. The needle was relegated for the sewing
machine, electric range and fireless cooker had supplanted the
open fireplace, and instead of her woven, handmade dress,
grandmother can now wear the most per feet of garments, turned
out ready to wear by great industrial factories.
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Civilization is the hand of God working
through human agencies. When the work has been accomplished and
valley and plain are blossoming like the rose the transformation
seems a bit of alchemy, or a fairy tale, Man may claim the
glory, but God planned, and also while Adam delved Eve span.
Betsy
Biggs
When Betsy Biggs moved from Kentucky in
1817 with her husband, Wm. Biggs, she brought courage and
character and a copy of Milton's Paradise Lost along with slaves
and gold and furniture and a brood of incipient citizens. The
book is a keynote. Her myriad descendants are lovers of
learning, and that Betsy read the book is proven by her giving
her son the name of the blind poet. The book, nearly 200 years
old, was printed in Edinburgh in 1726 and is now the most valued
possession of a granddaughter. And Betsy was a wonderful wife,
for when she was to be baptized along in the late twenties, her
husband rode horseback from Jefferson City, where as
representative he was attending the legislature, to observe the
rites. And Betsy was a lover of fine horses and on her eightieth
birthday went riding, keeping up with the best of them. So
strong was this love that it passed into the line of inheritance
and wherever a drop of it prevails it means the possession of
blooded animals and fine stock. Her women slaves were taught by
her to weave and they were splendid weavers, their wool and
linen being remarkable for their smoothness. When one of her
sons was married he and also his bride were dressed in fine
white linen from head to foot, even wearing moccasins of deer
skin tanned to a gleaming white. It is related that one of the
guests, a pioneer gallant, slipped while playing ball and had
the misfortune to get his pants so stained with grass that he
disappeared in mortification from the company. Betsy Biggs was a
woman of such strong character that among her descendants
scattered over several counties of northeast Missouri, her name
is still a household word. ''How strangely do things grow and
die and do not die."
Madame
Schriefer
Only sixty years ago when plodding,
ponderous oxen brought Madame Schriefer, a buxom German bride,
through forests, over streams and by perilous ways to the broad
prairie, her chief assets were courage and youth. Away from her
one room log house, prairie grass, taller than herself,
stretched as far as eye could reach, shimmering in the gleaming
sun. Green flies buzzed all day and rattlesnakes were so
numerous it was not safe to venture out without a stout stick.
This precaution Mrs. Schriefer forgot one day when going a few
yards away to the well, but when she stepped on a coiled snake
her presence of mind did not desert her, and she quickly plumped
her bucket over the writhing mass. There were no dubs and
receptions in Mrs. Schriefer's day and when her husband made his
three days' journey to the mill, her chief diversion was
climbing a ladder to the roof of her home, where she would sit
and watch the deer go plunging through the tall grass.
No Parsee guarded his altar fires more
zealously than this indispensable article was guarded on this
hearthstone. Matches were as rare as jeweled stickpins and one
day when not a live coal could be found in the ashes, a member
of the family rode several miles to procure some from their
nearest neighbor, on the return journey riding with extended arm
that the rushing wind might fan the coals and keep them above. A
spacious home now replaces the log cabin and from where Mrs.
Schriefer watched the deer, now can be seen fallow fields rimmed
with trim hedges, sleek, fat cattle grazing, winding railroads,
and a breath of peace and opulence.
As a mark of great favor she brings out
her spinning wheel and shows you how she spun a stout woolen
thread and a fine linen thread. ''Life was not hard. No, it was
fun. I could do it again," says this indomitable will that
helped to make the prairie blossom as the rose.
Here and there in Missouri are women who
have seen King Arthur pass, slaying the beast, felling the
forest and making broad pathways for the children of men. There
are only left a few of these dear roses of yesterday, clinging
tenaciously to life, faded, fragrant, anachronisms among the
gorgeous bloom and blossom of today.
Unfortunate indeed is one who does not count among their
acquaintance, one of those dear, sweet, white-haired women, in
their eyes lingering shadows and depths and vision of things
long swept out by the march of progress. When they say, "I
remember," it has the folk lore quality of "Once upon a time."
Their story is of those who have gone before in the wilderness.
Each pioneer woman, living or dead, baa
added her little molecule to the glory of the state. The story
of each life is a sentence in its history. They are the real
uncrowned heroines of Northeast Missouri. And how pitifully few
are left. How close they are to the brink of the river. Every
day one slips over. Perhaps another decade will mark their
complete passing. How strangely odd and lonely the world will
seem then.
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The
Pioneer
Woman
Every community has its few pioneer
women. Their stories all vary and are yet all typical and can be
duplicated in any other community. Men and women are so absorbed
in the mad rush of the day, commercial, industrial and social,
that they do not realize that the last human documents of an
historic period are yet open about them. That it is their rare
and rich privilege to read if they will. The names and deeds of
these women are never written in books. They have only been
written in human lives. They have done nothing great, only lived
and loved, and made a home and borne children, and lived life to
the full of its circumstance, the while unconsciously fostering,
developing, crystallizing the character of the men and women of
their state. The historic atmosphere is elusive but their story
should have a setting of the wildness' of a century ago. It
should be told about a cavernous fireplace with the tea kettle
hanging on the crane, and the blaze creeping up through the
hickory logs and breaking into flickering, wavering shadows on
walls of log and puncheon floor. In the gleam and glow the old
wrinkled faces would turn magically back to the smooth bloom and
beauty of youth.
Cevilla Inlow
Roland
In 1829 civilization had not disturbed
the lair of the panther or frightened away Indians, or bear or
deer. Cevilla Inlow Roland, who was born in that year, can
still, despite the lapse of eighty-three years, remember vividly
the screams and cries of "painters" that made the nights hideous
and kept her shivering even in her warm featherbed.
Around her pioneer log home lay primeval
wildness, and once while fishing in a nearby stream a bear came
stealthily padding on a log across the water, but was seen in
time and the children fled in wild haste. The Indians, too, kept
the hearts of the children in terror. They only committed
occasional depredations, but this fact conveyed no feeling of
safety to the children of pioneer days, and one day Cevilla was
almost paralyzed with fright to see an Indian brave with
feathers in his hair emerge from the woods and loom suddenly,
before her. Though he only demanded a handshake, the courtesies
of the highway were ignored and she fled precipitately, followed
by sounds that her imagination freely translated as challenging
war whoops. This was in 1838 and the last Indian Cevilla ever
saw.
In 1843 when Cevilla was fourteen years
old tragedy came into the pioneer home. The mother died. Also
the old black mammy slave of the family. There were ten bodies
to feed and ten bodies to clothe in that stricken household, and
the work devolved solely on Cevilla, aged fourteen, and her
sister, aged sixteen, and nobly they rose to the work.
Prom early dawn to late candle light
these two young heroines wrought miracles with their slender,
marvel working fingers. They carded the wool into rolls, spun it
into thread, wove the cloth, made the garments worn by the
father, the children and the cabin of little darkies. Sometimes
there was a roll of jeans to spare and it was carried on
horseback forty miles away to the town and exchanged for tea and
coffee and many coveted things. There was not an article used in
that home, sheets, table cloths, towels, but these two girls,
fourteen and sixteen, had not made.
A happy feature of this pioneer life was
the over-Sunday visits of a certain pioneer swain, who arrived
on Saturday evening and stayed until Sunday evening. He gave the
ladies the latest news, how mother was checking the cotton she
had in the loom, and they were keeping their sheep pens covered
to keep out the wolves. And they roasted wild turkey in the
fireplace and carefully turned the corn pone on its board taking
on a golden brown before the mellow blaze. On the mantel
overhead ticked the clock bought from a journeyman peddler the
year Cevilla was born and as the flames danced eyes sent fair
speechless messages.
The same old clock ticks today in a
dignified, deliberate way as befits its years. Underneath it sit
the same swain and the same maid telling the story of that
far-off day. "It was hard work," says Cevilla, but we didn't
know anything else." By the side of the clock in a hand-carved
frame is a silhouette, ninety years old, of Cevilla's mother,
Anne Briscoe, born in 1803, a Bourbon county, Kentucky belle,
and a woman of great strength of character. How else could her
daughter, aged fourteen, have accomplished the work she did in
that pioneer home?
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Mrs. Lewis
Coontz
Though one of the first settlements of
Missouri was made along Salt River and Spencer creek, life there
remained primitive for a long period. Even at this day a ride in
certain communities is like dropping into the atmosphere of a
century ago. Hills are wild and lonely. A brooding quiet
prevails. Perhaps in going around a curve a tiny home is nestled
by the side of a small patch of corn, as if it were the first
tentative pioneer essay at cultivation.
In riding over the rocky bed of the
shallow stream there are glimpses of overhanging low growth. A
canoe of Indians can easily be pictured paddling toward you over
the green and glassy water. Under the dense growth of hillsides
a thousand feather helmeted braves could easily hide. There is
no noise but the clear bird calls. On a hill etched against the
sky is a gaunt two-story log house, leaning, tottering. The
setting sun sends shafts of light through its open windows. It
is ghostly, a last lingering shadow. The historical atmosphere
antedates the pioneer. It is tinged with medievalism. An
automobile is an anachronism. It needs slow moving oxen. Even in
1833 when Mrs. Lewis Coontz came into this country with her
father, life was pitifully primitive.
This family built a one-room cabin of
poles and prepared to challenge the forest for a living. Wild
turkeys were in abundance but they were elusive and wary. One
expedient for catching them was for one to sprinkle corn on the
earth floor of the cabin, meanwhile counterfeiting on a bone the
cluck of a turkey, while two others held a blanket at the top of
the door ready to drop when the cautious birds had ventured in.
More often than not this ruse was unavailing. But a turkey trap
was maintained which was more successful in contributing to the
family needs.
Getting shoes in those days was not the
simple matter of sitting in a leather chair while an obsequious
clerk fits a rather fastidious foot and fancy. Instead there was
waiting sometimes months until the shoemaker of the section
arrived and made the shoes for the family, the hide from the
last cow killed having been dressed and tanned and waiting for
his skill. If shoes wore out before his arrival there was
nothing to do but go barefooted, without any reference to the
zero tendency of the thermometer. This last was the condition of
both the family and the weather when it became known that the
turkey trap, a quarter of a mile away, held a bunch of coveted
birds. Mrs. Coontz and the girls ran to the trap with all speed.
Each grasped a bird, but on the return home they were compelled
to frequently sit down and warm their feet in their woolen
skirts before dashing on, on another lap of the journey. These
stories seem like a fiction coined by the imagination, but those
who have seen these things still live and tell the story.
Mrs. Susan
Pox
Today in Northeast Missouri woman has
every facility for learning that an overeducated age can offer,
yet many of their grandmothers progressed no farther than the
Rule of Three and learned that sitting on a split log seat. It
is a rare privilege to meet one of these old ladies who, so to
speak, were in at the birth of our great educational system.
Mrs. Susan Fox, sitting bent with the weight of her eighty-six
years, began her schooling in one of those log buildings that
belong now only to history. She is a dear, quaint, but
remarkably strong-minded old lady, with a very just doubt as to
the spelling ability of the younger generations, given to
phonetics and queer markings.
She was seven years old in that far-away
spring of 1833 when she started to the log cabin schoolhouse,
just at the edge of a forest, passing on the way with great fear
and trembling, a bunch of wigwams, but gathering courage she
stopped to see the Indians execute a dance, the braves making
queer noises on queerer instruments, while the squaws circled in
a slow, fantastic, aboriginal dance. "The schoolhouse," says
Mrs. Fox, "was built of logs, with an enormous fireplace
occupying one entire end. On one side a log was left out and
this gave us the only light we had. The floor was just a rough
puncheon one and the seats made of logs split in two. There we
sat all day, our little feet dangling and our poor little backs
nearly breaking."
These little martyrs of learning
possessed an incongruous collection of books. Mrs. Fox rejoiced
in a "blue back" speller and the Life of Washington, while next
to her a little maid had to learn the mysterious process of
reading from the cheerful source of Fox's Book of Martyrs, and
another still used the Bible. Her father had decided ideas about
learning and his daughter was sent to town where a select school
was taught by a lady late from Philadelphia, who added
philosophy to her curriculum as a touch of eastern culture. Her
father also sent his daughter to a dancing school but never
permitted her to attend dances. However, it was an
accomplishment he said that every lady should know.
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While spinning and weaving were done in
this home, it was for the use of the darkies, with the exception
of Samuel which was made into petticoats, gathered at the waist
and three yards around, top and bottom.
In 1840 when Mrs. Fox was fourteen years
old she made a visit to her grandfather in Kentucky and brought
home with her a salmon-colored silk that she rejoiced in
greatly. One day she wore it to church, accompanied by a young
gallant, also her father, all on horseback. They stopped at the
creek to let the horses drink, when Mrs. Fox's horse laid down
in the cool water. The young man was so excited and frightened
that he rode out and left her to her fate. Her father rescued
her not before, however, the salmon colored silk was a total
ruin, the water turning it to a bright purple. In those days the
stork had not been dislodged from his supremacy and when the
young people returned home a mischievous aunt asked the young
man how he expected to take care of a wife and twelve children
if he couldn't pull one girl out of the creek, a question that
so abashed him that he did not call again for a month.
In this pioneer household every child
was given his own horse and saddle when it was ten years old,
and the twelve members made a goodly procession when they
started to church.
Mrs. Fox's mother had one of the first
cooking stoves brought to Northeast Missouri, but for many years
it was simply an ornament. She was afraid the darkies would
break it if they cooked on it. Mrs. Fox herself had the first
sewing machine in her part of the country. Women would come for
miles to see it, and men, sometimes driving stock, would stop
and stay while she showed them the wonders of its sewing,
meanwhile the hogs or cows straying far into the woods.
Mrs. Fox sits now, rocking gently; on
her finger, worn thin as her thread of life, is a gold ring worn
one hundred and twenty-five years ago by her Kentucky
grandmother and she shows with pride family silver hammered out
a century ago by Kentucky silversmiths. Her eyes have witnessed
marvelous changes. The town where she dabbled in philosophy and
took her dancing lessons has grown from the small bunch of
houses to a city counting many thousands of population. Log
schoolhouses with their blue back spellers, and their simple
games of ''Black Man'' and ''Base'' have given way to stately
stone-trimmed edifices where they babble German, wrestle with
Greek, and take exercise in a gymnasium.
Section by section the country has had
wilderness and wolves, panther and deer, pushed into the
primitive lying beyond. ''I have seen changes, strange
changes,'' says Mrs. Fox. ''I can remember when here, where I
sit, it was considered as much as a man's life was worth to
venture near it. Yet men were always pushing just a little
further on and women went with them. They are the real heroines
of this country.'' And the old lady sits, her eyes far back into
the past, seeing things that you can never see, this country as
it looked when she herself came and dwelt, making overtures to
fortune and the future.
Education of
Women
While along in the thirties and forties
of eighteen hundred, the educational facilities were intensively
primitive, in a few sporadic spots, of older settlement, the
habits of Virginia clung and the children were taught by a
governess. Later the girls went to a ''Female College," where
the curriculum was sufficiently formidable to satisfy modem
requirements.
Columbia even then had young and
cherry-lipped maids who babbled Greek with the finished
spontaneity of perfect acquirement. The Patriot, published in
Columbia in 1841, in giving an account of the exercises of Bonne
Femme College, says that Miss Mary Jenkins, afterwards the wife
of Charles H. Hardin, governor of Missouri, read Cicero with
''Extraordinary ease, lucid diction, and inimitable taste," and
''read parts of the Greek Testament, named at haphazard by a
gentleman in the audience, and went through the labyrinth of the
Greek verb, not as by the aid of a borrowed clue, but as if
nature had formed her another Ariadne." The latter quotation
also gives an illustrative flash of information on the
educational acquirements of the editorial chair of the period.
Or perhaps it was not the chair but a young tyro from the
University sent out on assignment. The rosy-cheeked maid with a
waterfall of curls, a cameo brooch at her throat, the billowy
skirts of her little checked silk flowing over her sedately
strapped ankles, evidently intoxicated him and Ariadnes and
Cupids filled all the air.
The meagerness of the early educational
facilities was only a phase. It was a poverty, not of mind, not
of purpose, but of resources. The adjustment was slow, but the
strong arm was ever pushing back the primitive and the strong
mind was ever appropriating, assimilating and improving, until
today education is almost a fetich, an obsession, in Northeast
Missouri. It is the freest thing we have. The mysteries of Greek
are as open to the daughter of the day laborer as they are to
the daughter of the capitalist.
Mrs. Sallie
Barnett
There prevailed still in the fifties in
many communities social life of great simplicity. Finger bowls
and pink teas lay in the unfathomed future. The blood ran full
and expression was free and untrammeled. The dictum of culture
that language is used to conceal thought had not penetrated to
the localities where log cabins and puncheon floors prevailed.
Boys and girls enjoyed life robustly, and when there was a
country dance its opportunities marked the high tide.
It was a great time, says Mrs. Sallie
Barnett, who was born in the last year of the thirties. A star
danced the night she was born, and for once the horoscopic
significance was true, for it is not the work of her pioneer
home that lingers most vividly with this white-haired old lady,
but the memory of the country dances. ''It was none of your come
at half past nine,'' she says, ''and home at twelve. We began
dancing at one o'clock and danced all afternoon, and all night
and the next morning until noon.'' By one o'clock of an
afternoon they came riding in from country lane and forest road,
brave boys, and buxom maids, many times the girls riding behind
the boys. The flaming hickory blaze sent dancing lights over the
smoothly worn floor, the old darkey tuned up his fiddle, and
under its compelling music feet went flying in the mazes of the
old time cotillion. At early dusk pound cake and custard and
fried pies were eaten with zest, and then the long white tallow
candles made by the women, were brought out and under their
gentle radiance dancing and love making flowed along,
interrupted only by the occasional disappearance of some of the
laughing girls to make anew their toilets.
The Social
Life
For three times at least during the long
dance girls changed their dresses, slipping away up the stairs
and shortly emerging, fresh and stiffly starched and with smooth
locks, for feminine vanity is the same yesterday, today and
forever. Freshness and immaculateness were the chief points of
glory in the matter of dress, for each was made alike, with
tight waists and full skirt. In fact, there was only one pattern
in the neighborhood and it passed from family to family, serving
alike for the old and the young, the slim and her unfortunate
sister. Any change in dress caused untold wonderment and once
when two town girls appeared at a dance with their hair in curls
and with ribbons, it caused an overpowering sensation.
''We had none of your dreamy waltzing,"
says Mrs. Barnett; ''we danced and when it came to swing your
partners, the boys fairly lifted us off our feet." And this same
vigor was maintained until noon of the second day when they
mounted horse and rode away to dream for weeks of swift glances
and whispered word and the glory of the dance. Though the
country swain of the fifties was generally in the proper bounds
of conventional jeans and tow linen, a man who is now living and
a wealthy citizen was seen by Mrs. Barnett wearing a gorgeous
flowered calico coat, tow linen pants, and a pair of overshoes.
While this primitiveness of social life
prevailed in many localities during the fifties, in others life
was the reflection of the best that was maintained in Virginia
and Kentucky. In many places fine country mansions had been
built, large and spacious. Many of them stand yet, their
workmanship having a permanent quality. They were built in a day
when houses were built on honor. About their old colonial
simplicity still hangs that basic idea of stability and honor,
as well as a kind of story book stateliness telling of a day
when men bowed with courtly grace and even sometimes kissed a
lady's hand. What flower faces have looked out those little
panes, or waited by the little ladders of light framing the
great hall door for a glimpse of the coming swain. What gay
figures have come trooping down those wide old stairs in
sprigged muslins, in flowered, flowing, silk, with black sandals
strapping their white ankles, a cameo brooch at their throat and
their faces framed in curls. When they stood in long lines
facing smiling gallants and danced the Virginia reel with
graceful sway and stately curtsies, it was different from the
country dance only in its little elegancies and the air of
culture, for the heart of a maid beats in unison with the heart
of a man, the wide world over.
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"Becky
Thatcher"
Northeast Missouri has the distinction
of giving to literature one of its most famous heroines. For
here still lives Mrs. Laura Frazer, "Becky Thatcher," the
heroine of Tom Sawyer, known wherever the English language is
spoken. Though her head is crowned with the snows of many
winters, there is yet a twinkle in the eyes reminiscent of the
gay little coquette that tossed a pansy over the fence to
bare-footed Tom. Time has covered the fire with a veil of years,
but there still shines through the glory of an eternal charm,
and it is small wonder that Becky's initial appearance, roguish,
dimpling, coquettish swept Tom's heart like a gale. She sits in
her room today, flashing eyed but serene.
Though the author, Mark Twain, has been
her life-long friend and she prizes beyond anything his
photograph he gave her shortly before his death, and bearing
this in his fine old fashioned chirography, "To Laura Frazer,
from her earliest sweetheart," Becky Thatcher is but an incident
of Mrs. Frazer's youth.
She has been through fires that have
only made wider spaces for a great soul. When the horrors of war
convulsed her state, she too suffered and endured and triumphed.
When the emancipation proclamation freed the slaves it left a
great mass of helpless women to whom the cooking of a meal was
as great a mystery as the hieroglyphs of an Egyptian monument.
They knew nothing of cooking or of the management of a kitchen.
But these finely bred gentlewomen of Missouri met the condition
with the courage of the brave and the resourceful. "If a
woolly-headed Negro could learn to cook," said Mrs. Frazer, "I
knew I, with intelligence, added, could and surely would learn
too." And this was the general attitude of that large number of
women of Northeast Missouri who met the fortunes of war like
good soldiers. Yet how trifling was this domestic
disorganization to the tragedy of war with its harrowing
suspense, its torture of soul and mind.
"It was a black time," says Mrs. Frazer.
With her husband in hiding in another town, this wife and
mother, only twenty-three, scarcely more than a girl, stayed in
the home with her two little boys, her soul torn with the
anguish of uncertainty. General McNeil was camped in her yard.
It rained and he asked permission to bring his officers in her
house. She gave it. They filled the house, cooking, eating and
sleeping there. Her kitchen was full of strange Negroes and she
cooked for her family as she could. With the guileless craft of
sweet and loving women she made a little dinner and asked
General McNeil to dine with her and when he had broken her bread
and was under the influence of dainty courtesies and the charm
of his hostess, she plead with him to permit the return of her
husband, upon the solemn assurance that while his sympathy was
with the south, he was not actively arraigned against tha
government, and that his services as a physician were needed.
Her request was granted and her husband came home, but only saw
his brave wife and his babies that night, for General McNeil,
breaking camp next morning, had reconsidered overnight and had
taken Doctor Frazier with him a prisoner.
Then began for Mrs. Frazer a period of
waiting in which body and soul were so lacerated by emotion that
life was a living death. She made continued, frantic, unavailing
pleas for her husband's release. The days went by on leaden
feet. Fields were laid waste and homes burned. Lone women were
stupefied with terror. That her home was not burned was due to
herself, General McNeil himself admitting that he was in that
part of the country for that purpose, when her courtesy saved
it.
On an October morning in 1862 she went
to Palmyra, only to again meet curt refusal. So great was her
own distress that the crowds about the officers' quarters, stern
faced men, women crying, women praying, disheveled women, with
hair streaming down their shoulders, made only a blurred picture
in her mind. It was not until she reached Hannibal that she
learned that General McNeil had ordered ten southern prisoners
to be shot, because of the disappearance of one Allsman. Five
had been selected from the prison in Palmyra and men were there
even to take five from the Hannibal prison. And her bus band was
in that prison! She made appeals in every quarter that offered a
bare possibility of hope. The only shadow of hope accorded her
was the statement that a number of prisoners were to be
transferred to St. Louis. It was an exhausted, tragic, heroic,
little figure that asked for admission to the prison to see her
husband. While waiting the provost marshal read a list of
prisoners to be transferred to St. Louis. Doctor Frazer's name
headed the list! Her alternating hope and despair burst into a
prayer of thankfulness that amazed her husband, who was wholly
unaware that his life had been hanging by so slender a thread.
With the undaunted courage of women she followed him to St.
Louis and traveled every avenue of appeal until at last Doctor
Frazer went home with her a free man.
Though half a century has passed away
there is a tremor in Mrs. Frazer's voice as she gently turns the
leaves in her Book of Years. In this spacious room high above
the city, steals an awe and a holy quiet and abides. Through the
window, a beautiful picture, the broad Mississippi glistens and
gleams and slips by the tree crowned bluffs. Tears are over the
bright eyes of Becky, Becky Thatcher. "Life is a tragedy!'' she
says. But out of tragedies women weave their starry crowns of
womanhood. From travail of soul and the discipline of life are
evolved the sons and daughters that are the glory of the state.
"Becky Thatcher" is a beautiful gift of permanent charm to the
world but a greater gift is a rare and beautiful womanhood
radiating strength and virtue, and left as an inheritance to
perpetuating descendants.
Women in Civil
War
Time
All over Northeast Missouri the story of
Mrs. Frazer can be duplicated. Gay, feminine women keep their
lady feet in soft and beaten ways, until occasion arises with
stern demand. The soldier on the firing line is not braver then
than she. When word came to Mrs. Thompson Alford that her
husband was at Vicksburg and wounded, dainty dependence dropped
from her like a garment. She was all iron. Through the horror of
Vicksburg, her husband, and wounded! What were the hundreds of
miles of Federal blockade that separated them? Love and money
rendered impotent any barriers that men can build. She had both,
ran the blockade and nursed her husband back to health. And when
she had to return to her Missouri home, he procured an overcoat
belonging to a soldier in the opposing army and going on board
one of their transports put her in charge of the captain. "Madam
he said with a courtly bow, "I wish you a safe journey home.''
And he left her there on the deck of the boat. Both were
dry-eyed and calm, and neither had the assurance that they would
ever again see each other. But when a similar call came to her,
again she went, and followed her husband all over the south. The
tragedy of the weary months culminating in Altoona, Georgia,
when Sherman went through to the sea. Captain Alford was in an
upstairs room wounded and helpless. The flames were blazing up
the stairway before the frantic appeals of the faithful wife
brought help.
For weeks after she tended him in a tiny
cottage near Altoona, their sole fare being bacon and bread made
from corn ground daily. They were permitted this luxury because
of their host's expedient; when he heard of Sherman's coming he
had ripped out the ceiling of his porch and hidden both bacon
and corn under the roof, nailing it up again securely. When
peace came to the wrecked country Mrs. Alford returned to her
Missouri home with her husband where they found their once
magnificent farm a barren waste, and their home in ashes. But
what was that to a husband with such a wife!
Home Life in Pioneer Times
These little stories of human interest
are representative of phases of Missouri history, and show that,
in whatever phase, women played well their part. ''In books,''
says Carlyle, ''lies the soul of the whole past time; the
articulate, audible voice of the Past when the body and the
material substance of it, has altogether vanished like
''dream.'' Vanished indeed like a dream are the conditions and
the environments called to mind by these stories of a day that
is past. Ere long the last human link will have been broken, and
it will be only through books that we can see the advancing of
the sturdy pioneer, his broad axe whetted to carve out
civilization, adventurous men with prophetic eye on the edge of
the future with its full and fat years, and with them women,
wives and daughters, building a foundation that their daughters
and granddaughters might be as ''corner stones polished after
the similitude of a palace.'' Through books only can we see the
forest give way to fields of corn and vistas of prairie grass to
fields of waving grain. Now we see only results.
The little red schoolhouse occupies the
site of the old log room. And they who sat on the old split log
seats builded so well that now their granddaughters matriculate
from one of the foremost universities of the country, here in
Northeast Missouri. Instead of a blue back speller and the Life
of Washington every facility known to an age when education is
apotheosized, is at the command of the poorest. ''My
great-grandmother," said one, ''propped an old grammar in front
of her while she wove cloth, and she spoke so pure an English
that it put us to shame." Is it a wonder that her descendants
are at the head of colleges and schools and the center of the
educational life wherever they may be?
The pioneer housewife tended with
zealous care the corn pone slowly baking on its board before the
wide-throated fireplace, and when done placed it on the snowy
square of cloth of her own weaving. Her grand-daughter takes her
pan of biscuits, little flyaway puffs, from the oven of an
electric range, and serves them on a machine-made doilie on a
silver tray, but the fine instinct of looking well to the way of
her household has come down true and un-alloved. No more shines
the blaze of the back log and the softer radiance of the candle
while girls in calico gown, home-woven skirts and homemade shoes
disport over smoothly-worn puncheon floors to the inspiring
music of the old fiddle. Instead, stringed orchestras play, and
gliding over the waxed expanse go fairy forms, silken hosed,
satin slipperier, with wild roses going a maying over hair and
filmy gown. Everything different except the coquetry. That is
eternal. Women have gone along offering the apple to man, in one
guise or another, ever since that little affair in the Garden of
Eden.
When the
Baby
Came
The pioneer woman was happy with two or
three little calico slips, the little flannels that she herself
wove for her baby, and when the time came for her to go down in
the dark valley, more often than not the doctor was forty miles
away, and her only refuge was some good old woman, who many
times had performed such offices. Indeed the pioneer mother was
a good doctor, and knew all the qualities of medicinal herbs. It
is related today by the eighty-four-year-old son of Mrs. Ann
Waters, who was born in 1805 and died in 1905, that his mother
looked on a doctor as a genuine disciple of Black Art, firmly
believing that if she were to imbibe any of his potions it meant
certain death. There was not much demand for a doctor in the
pioneer day, however. Life ran quieter, less tense. It is in
this swift, madly rushing present of 1913 that the neurologist
is coining gold. Then, a birth was a natural process of nature,
like the opening of buds in spring. Now it is becoming an event
that disturbs the whole trend of life. It means drawers full of
lacy, perishable things, two or three doctors, trained nurses,
long hours of lounging in blue ribboned lingerie, long periods
of readjustment. The modern woman has not the physique of her
pioneer forbears. Invention and modem appliances have so reduced
the labor of modem home life, that the body does not develop its
full capacity. The heart* and mother love are the same though,
and no more splendid mothers could be found in the world.
Women in the
Church
While all the presiding ministers in
Northeast Missouri are men, a large proportion would not command
their salaries if it were not for the activities of women. From
the tip of the spire to the basement the trail of the women is
over the church. The ministers are learned, erudite, and can
thrill to tears, but it is the women who pay for the pulpit, buy
the pipe organ, tack down the carpet, control the missionary
exchequer and see that the coal bins are full. ''What great
work," was asked a woman of intelligence and broad acquirements,
''have the women of Northeast Missouri accomplished in religious
work?" "Nothing,'' was the answer; ''nothing! she has been too
busy paying the preacher and making missionary money." After all
is it not practical religion that is the weightier argument?
The woman of today is a composite of
Mary and Martha. She breaks her alabaster box with one hand and
serves sandwiches with the other. Missions and church socials
were not thought of in pioneer days. Church was solely a place
in which to worship God, a place of godly quiet, solemn
observance, firstlies and seventhlies. ''You may say, '' said an
upright old lady of eighty, wearing her years like a coronet,
''that for more years than I can remember I never missed a
Sunday service, and my husband and I rode four miles horseback,
each carrying a child behind us and one in front of us. They sat
between us during the service and neither talked or whispered. I
carried cookies and a bottle of water in my reticule to give
them. I do not like the way children run about in Sunday-school
now, and neither do I like your godless music or your
twenty-minute sermons.''
It is indeed a far cry from the
antebellum church habits and methods to this day of
progressiveness. The exponents of each have a very visible line
of demarcation albeit each looks to the same ultimate point.
Outward forms and mental attitudes are a product of the times,
whether of old time sobriety, or modern broad interpretation.
Though the solemn significance is often not felt in the
atmosphere of some of our churches, who shall say that the
white-gowned modish matron or maid who plays bridge on Saturday
and sits under the jeweled light of stained glass windows on
Sunday is less religious, less capable of sacrifice?
As pretty a story as one can hear is
that of the recent action of the women of a Fulton church, who
had, by the usual methods of women's church organizations,
raised the sum of $1,000 to be used in providing long-coveted
improvements. But when old Westminster burned, Westminster!
Where their fathers and grandfathers and husbands had gone to
school and the old columns stood stark and naked and alone in
the grove these women did not hesitate. They sent their thousand
dollars at once. ''Take it'' they said, ''it will help in the
rebuilding." And they probably did this beautiful act of
sacrifice in a smiling, everyday way. There was no solemn,
religious hour of rendering a religious service to the Lord.
Religion is largely hid today under
convention, or shall we say, that a broad, democratic
interpretation of religion prevails, an everyday religion,
capable indeed of its high and holy moments, but given mostly to
doing deeds of week-day holiness, noiseless as the snow; There
is no woman, however apparently given over to worldly ways, but
has an inner chamber where the snake has never entered, and
which keeps her soul true to the pole.
Women in the
Schools
It is in school work that the women of
Northeast Missouri have rendered a service next to that of
motherhood. It is probable that seven-eighths of the instructors
in the educational world are women. Some of them are at the head
of the most successful colleges and schools and A. M. degrees
are commonplace possessions. However, how many abbreviations she
may be entitled to suffix to her name, the instances are rare
when she has not been willing to substitute the simple prefix of
Mrs. for the entire aggregation of the symbols of her learning,
thus keeping inviolate the reputation of our women to be above
all things truly feminine, truly women.
In college, in high school, in the
grades, in the rural schools the women are doing a great work,
not only in purely intellectual work, but in that broader and
deeper influence radiating from a womanhood of culture and high
ideals. Not only do women predominate as instructors, but they
are encroaching in other fields, there being no less than
fourteen women county superintendents of public schools. The
work that women are doing is a growth, a development, a result,
harking back to the foundation laid by their pioneer
grandmothers.
The pioneer woman who looked after a
large family, and a goodly number of slaves, with weaving and
spinning, and cooking and sewing all proceeding under her able
direction, was endowed generously with executive ability, and
explains in great measure the women doctors, lawyers, editors,
farmers, real estate dealers, women in public office that there
are today. It is mental activity expressed in a different way,
in alignment with the trend of the times. There are few
vocations in which women are not creditably engaged. She fills
many county offices with an efficiency not in any measure
inferior to work done by men. At the present time there is a
woman in Missouri running for the office of coroner, but this is
probably an exposition more of nerve than of brains.
It is impossible to tell what women have
done for Northeast Missouri. The historical perspective is too
short. They have come such a short way. It cannot be said that
they have come to this present estate along the primrose path of
dalliance. Instead it has been over jagged stones, through
primeval forests, over sun blistered plains, up from pioneer
darkness to a sunlight of industrial plentitude, of broad
culture, of almost opulent ease. The formulation of the modern
has been on the strong, simple, sturdy lines of the pioneer and
explains why the women walk as those who are free. Her
broad-minded independence, her lack of snobbishness, her
democracy, is a gift from a day when poverty was of a stigma,
but solely the condition of the times, as plentitude is the
condition of the present.
A Polyglot
Composite
The women of Northeast Missouri today
are a polyglot composite. English, German, Scotch, Irish, have
gone into the "melting pot." Also the brawn of the back woodaman,
the brain of the intellectual, the breeding of the aristocrat.
The result is a woman nobly evolved, rich in honor, in love
loyalty; splendid mothers, women of wit and resource, of brains
and ready adaptation to circumstances; woman who can herself
perform the work of her own household, and entertain high
dignitaries with equal grace. She is a creature of merged
heredities, culled from many countries. Many atavistic traits,
sometime of manner, sometime of person, sometime racial, have
given her a diversified quality, interesting to ethnologists,
and curious, bewildering, perplexing, charming and exciting the
admiration of those privileged to know her. In the same family
one daughter may with haughty grace and proud carriage surround
herself with the atmosphere of an old world court where an
ancestor moved proudly among its courtiers, another has the
housewifely instincts of her Plymouth forbears, while yet a
third scorning the ways of the protected, side by side with her
lord treads joyously in the course of empires, to western ranch,
or Canadian plains, or the gold fields of Alaska.
Some Women Newspaper Writers in Northeast Missouri From
left to right.
Miss Florence LaTurno, Miss Wilhelmina Long, Miss
Frances Nise,
Miss Cannie R. Quinn, Mrs. S. E. Lee, Miss Mary Alice Hudson
Miss Mabel Couch.
Miss Bertha Reid, Miss Malvina Lindsay, Miss Sara Lockwood.
As yet no high conspicuous deeds, no
names of immortal luster have been produced in Northeast
Missouri. The average woman is educated, cultured, domestic,
religious, a club woman, and vastly interested in the live
issues of the day, in every problem of public interest that
means the betterment of conditions, and the development of
public benefits. Her methods may lack a certain virile quality,
hut her ultimate success excuses this. In a certain county the
young ladies are vitally interested in good roads, and have
issued an edict that every gentleman to be eligible to a place
on their calling list should possess a certificate of membership
in an active good roads organization. What veteran diplomat
could transcend the subtle craft of that?
While energy has been expended in
education, in literature, in journalism, sculpture, politics,
religion, missions, the lecture field, but few names have
emerged from the crowd. Indeed the glory of Northeast Missouri
is the splendid type of her average woman, who finds in
wife-hood and motherhood the full tide of her acquirements and
her natural endowments. A modern high priestess of the home,
keeping safe and secure the sweet, sane, everydayness of life
out of which grows the possibility of all goodness and all
greatness. Add to these basic virtues her full acceptance of
Victor Hugo's apothegm that. "There is in the world no more
important function than being charming," and it must be
acknowledged that she has rendered the greatest possible service
to her state. It may be said without fear of refutation that in
its process of evolution, the fine type of womanhood generated
in Virginia, and deflected to Kentucky, has been perfected here
in Northeast Missouri.
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Source: History of Northeast Missouri,
edited by Walter Williams, Volume I, Lewis Publishing Company,
1913
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